what I am seeking: Is my best friend, lover and my future. I want someone who sees beyond today and wants a future that includes me in it. I want the lady who is seeking the same thing I am and is not afraid to go forward. It doesn't have to be tomorrow ladies, lol I know a lot of you are scared that someone is trying to rush you down the aisle. You might think that's old fashion, I call it dating. So here is the deal. I really would prefer someone around my age or slightly younger. you have to be willing to try new things. be confident in yourself. I want a friend first. if nothing else at least I will have a friend. First dates & first conversations are always awkward. The whole get-to-know-you stage is a hard process but worth it if things take off. I am looking for my last first date.