I'm a mix of Hindu and Christian upbringing so difficult to put myself in one category as I am more spiritual and Buddhist in nature than religious. I have found summing me up in one short paragraph tricky as there is so much to me. I am a mix of very English and very Indian. My family is English and I have wished to connect to my Indian roots and people and find my Indian self again as at a time i had lost my Indian identity as my english family sometimes took over. But the Indian Madhu is hopefully back and here to stay. I have been on a journey of self-discovery. I learn something new about myself and have changed over time so bring a varied richness to myself that makes me unique. I am above all very caring and loving, cute and funny and when I need to be, serious and assertive too.I have being in one relationship only, over time have found that I am shy. I have had 1 previous serious relationship in my life which came to an end in 2009. I feel now I am ready to give someone special a chance, to get to know me further and see what happens. I am open minded, warm, intelligent sensitive , bubbly and devastatingly attractive,very English but very India too , caring , led quite an exciting full life, never a dull moment and am an academic too, to balnce out the bubbly side. never a dull moment.x lol Age 30's and upwards.no limit :) as long as you are sweet, caring, loyal and gentlemanly and a mixture of fun and seriousness. Singing a great advantage: I love singing.