heart of gold

In any relationship, there will be issues. It is our ability to effectively communicate and deal with these issues, which sets apart a great relationship. Realizing one's self actualizing goals without stifling others . However, one has to strike the right balance between caring, loving, giving and freedom. I am also a good listener and don't like to judge people. I believe in lifelong learning and self improvement. I am trustworthy, warm , caring, giving, loving and very open. I believe better relationships can be build through Mutual respect, discussion, communication, and by being adaptable and flexible. I like to explore life . I have wide boundaries of what is acceptable . I have wide range of activities I like to enjoy. I love to entertain and cook. I enjoy to go to movies, concerts, nature walks , shopping, play/watch sports , travel, or just a drive to nowhere .In my spare time, I like to listen to music, read and enjoy my coffee/tea. I am financially independent and successful professionally I can be spontaneous at times even though I like to take time to assess and plan ahead. I prefer structure over chaos . Typically , I won't be the first one to strike a conversation or be a centre of attraction . However I can have a good conversation and can be fun to be around . I do have few great friends. I am looking for a friend ,a companion and a soul mate who believes in similar core values. I not afraid to make a lifelong commitment.