Love connecting with life in so many ways: mainly through other people, life experiences, nature,sports,through literature, film, art... Looking For: I demand of myself and the person I'm in a relationship with: self awareness, honesty with herself and with me--transparency with thoughts and feelings (even if she thinks they may hurt), sensitivity,compassion, and integrity: the ability to be for oneself but also be for another. The following characteristics are essential: mutual attraction, love, respect, admiration alongside a shared sense of wonder and play.